Sunday, February 17, 2013

Attention-Seekers

Do you know a lot of girls who are flirtatious? They always feel like a super star who walks around the campus wearing heavy make up, fashioned clothes, high heels, etc. To sum it up, they are always the center of attraction.

Well, it is one of the rebellious effects of daughters not having their fathers around. They always try to seek the attention they need from other people. Upon seeing an article, entitled The Effects of Fathers Rejecting Their Daughters by Thea Theresa English, one major effect written in that article is about girls seeking attention from men.

Therese English quoted, "When a daughter is rejected by her father and she's a teen, she may look to other men for the love and attention she craves."

It is a sort of a rebound relationship. When someone who just broke up with her boyfriend and had another boyfriend in just a short period of time, the guy will most likely to be a rebound for the girl.  A relationship where a girl tries to substitute her former boyfriend so that she can move on. Attention-seekers are like this. When they did not experienced a father's love, they try to substitute their fathers with other men around so that they'll get the attention they wanted. 


This type of girls most likely irritate people around. But people must understand them because they only wanted to feel like they are love. If you know someone who is like this, you need to be sensitive that one most likely reason why they act like like that is the absence of the father's love. 

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